In less than a week the day that I have been waiting for will finally arrive with a full head of steam and a bunch of crazy family members. I have no idea how its going to go but I know one thing is for sure: I'm getting married! I've been told by so many people that I shouldn't get married when I am only 23 and I don't have a job yet (nobody that I really care about has said this), but I feel like I should have married Laura years ago! We are a married couple, but without saying the vows in a church and exchanging rings. So, then why are we getting married other than to have children without society looking down upon us, or all of the gifts that come with a wedding? Its simple, the chance to express our love and say those vows in front of the people that have shaped our lives and guided our relationship. Laura and I have long known that we were meant for each other and that our lives were to be lived as one, but I get the feeling sometimes that other people don't. So, this is a time for Laura and I to promulgate our commitment to each other publicly! I personally could go my life without have a fancy ceremony or inviting the 550 people we did invite (I know Laura would disagree), but it is important that everyone we feel is important know how we feel about each other.
With that said I can truly express my excitement in the fact that I get to have a giant party in Laura's and my honor and hang out with my friends and drink beer at the beach! Can't really get much better than that! It is going to be a blast as Laura and I have been planning this for almost 2 years! Thats a long-ass-mother-fucking time to be planning a wedding! I mean we started planning before we were engaged! Crazy I know, but it works for us. We don't always have to the normal thing, but we do the fun and exciting thing instead. This wedding should be a prime example of that. I cannot wait to have the doors fly open, Laura come strolling down the aisle in her beautiful wedding gown, say " I do", and than party the night away! Oh yeah, and then live happily ever after! I love you Laura, more than the sun and the stars!
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